Feelings

One of the biggest mistakes in a relationship, be it platonic or romantic is not understanding a simple fact.

That would be that feelings cannot be wrong.
The understanding of a situation that brings an uncomfortable feeling may be misinterpreted, yet the emotion is as real as it can be. Never ever say [COLOR=Blue]“What you are feeling is wrong”[/COLOR] (you’ll lose).
Understand and respect its validity… Emotions are a very deep seated and don’t fade or change quickly.

Open dialog with acknowledgment of such, then work on analyzing (listening) and discussing. Expect time for change. (patience)

Keep in mind guys, we (women) are very emotional creatures. It may be annoying as hell at times… but it is what we are, it’s our hormonal / physical design.

Heidi

Would it be fair to say ‘love and be loved’ ?

What’s got you thinking about it Heidi ?

[quote=wheelieslug;438902]Would it be fair to say ‘love and be loved’ ?

What’s got you thinking about it Heidi ?[/quote]

Thoughts that a friend here… I think may be able to use or not, but still useful.
Heidi

Will you start leaving the toilet seat up for us then if we give you patience?

Sorry couldn’t resist…

G

Not a chance